Perfection Is Not the Price of Belonging

Perfection Is Not the Price of Belonging

Perfection Is Not the Price of BelongingJosh Kellar
Published on: 11/07/2025

You’ve polished every edge, filtered every feeling, and still—acceptance feels fragile. That’s because perfection doesn’t create love. It only hides your need for it.

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When Joy Feels Dangerous: Healing the Fear That Goodness Won’t Last

When Joy Feels Dangerous: Healing the Fear That Goodness Won’t Last

When Joy Feels Dangerous: Healing the Fear That Goodness Won’t LastJosh Kellar
Published on: 04/07/2025

You smile—but brace for impact. You get close—but start pulling back. Because something inside whispers: This won’t last. But what if joy isn’t the threat—what if it’s the medicine?

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You Are More Than What You Give: Undoing the Lie of Earned Belonging

You Are More Than What You Give: Undoing the Lie of Earned Belonging

You Are More Than What You Give: Undoing the Lie of Earned BelongingJosh Kellar
Published on: 27/06/2025

You’ve been the helper, the healer, the one who always shows up. But under all that kindness is often a quiet fear: If I stop being useful, will anyone still stay?

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You Were Never Too Much—They Just Forgot Their Own Depth

You Were Never Too Much—They Just Forgot Their Own Depth

You Were Never Too Much—They Just Forgot Their Own DepthJosh Kellar
Published on: 20/06/2025

There’s a pain that comes not from rejection—but from being asked to shrink. You begin to believe your fullness is a flaw. But what if the truth is, your “too much” is actually your truest self trying to breathe?

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